C'est la même vieille chose, It's the same old thing.

Quand j’ai trouvé ce texte suite a la lecture de certains profils que l’on trouves sur le chat, cela m’a emmené à réfléchir et à me dire que c’est vraiment ce qui se vis sur le chat et dans la vie. Les vrais valeurs ont tendances a disparaître et à être remplacé par des illusions. Le texte est en anglais, mais je l’ai trouvé tellement sublime, tellement vrai que j’en ai demandé la permission a Pablo31 d’utiliser en grande partie ce qui se trouve dans son profil, et de le travailler à ma façon pour que le message soit transmis et qui sais, peut-être que cela causeras un changement. Paroles prises de Lisa-Lisa du cd LL77.

Je regarde autour et voici ce que j’y vois. Des personnes de couleurs différentes et de différentes personnalités. Tant de visages, tant de vibrations. C’est en eux qu’ils en viennent a choisir comment vivre leurs vies. Comment peut tu te tromper à être ce que tu est ? C’est tout ce que tu peux être, c’est aller trop loin quand les personnes disent : tu est trop noir, tu est trop blanc, tu est incorrect, tu est pas bien. C’est toujours la même vieille chose.

Quand les personnes disent que tu n’est pas cela, que tu n’est pas ceci, que tu n’est pas grand chose, que tu n’est pas en forme. ( C’est la même vieille chose ). Trop de juges, mais personne n’est qualifié pour changer mon style de vie et ainsi me garder satisfait. Ceux qui compte ne juge pas, ceux qui juge ne compte pas. Penser a propos de ce que vous dites, bien avant qu’après. Tu n’est pas bien, tu n’est pas un prix. Tu n’est pas de la bonne grandeur, tu n’est pas du bon format. ( C’est toujours la même vieille chose ).

Quand les personnes disent, tu est bien trop haut, tu est bien trop bas, tu parle trop vite, tu te déplace trop lentement, ( c’est la même vieille chose ). Tu est par toi même si tu as raison, c’est la même vieille chose. Dire que tu n’a pas le droit de dire ce que tu veux dire. Cela ne devrais pas avoir d’importance que tu sois straight où gay. Me dire comment je devrais vivre, cela semble être la même vieille chose pour moi.

Tu n’est pas tout ceci, tu n’a pas assez de caractère, tu n’est pas pour vrai, tu n’est pas assez. ( C’est la même vieille chose ). Tu est moins qu’elle, tu est moins que lui. Tu ne peux pas être bas si tu n’est pas avec eux. Me dire quoi faire, me dire quoi donner, me dire que dire, me dire comment vivre. ( C’est toujours la même vielle chose ).

When I found this text after reading some profiles that we can find on the chat, this brought me to think and to say to myself, that this what is being lived on the chats and in the real life. Real values have tendancies to disappear and be replaced by illusions. I have found the text to be sublime, so true that I have asked permisson to Pablo31 to use, in a great part, what is found in his profile. And to work it out in french so that the message can be transmited and who knows, maybe provoke a change. Words taken from the Lisa-lisa cd LL77

I look around and this is what I see. People of different colors and personnalities. So many faces, so many vibes. Its within to choose how to live their lives, how can you be wrong for who you are, it’s all you can be. Its gone too far when people say : youre too black, youre too white, youre all wrong, youre not right. It’s the same old thing.

When people say youre not that, youre not this, youre not much, youre not fit ( its the same old thing ). Too many judges, but no one’s quanlified to change my lifestyle and keep me satisfied. Those that matter dont judge, those that judge dont matter. Think about what you say, more before than after. Youre not good, youre no prize, youre not the right height, youre not the right size. ( its the same old thing ).

When people say : youre up too high, youre down too low, you talk too fast, you moove too slow ( its the same old thing ) On your own for being right, its the same old thing. Saying that you have no rights to say what you want to say. It shouldnt matter if youre straight or gay. Telling me how to live sounds like the same old thing to me.

You’re not all that, youre not too tough, you’re not for real, youre not enough ( its the same old thing ). Youre less than her, youre less than him. You cant be down if youre not with them. Telling me what to do, telling me what to give, telling me what to say, telling me how to live. ( its the same old thing )

Sir John's Book

Entrer dans son univers et prenez le temps de le découvrir ce n’est pas toujours simple, mais il est quelqu’un d’authentique qui n’a pas peur de ses opinions et de ses convictions. Il s’agit d’aller plus loin que le côté « rough ou tough » de sa personne en apparence, afin de découvrir ce qui se cache dans son âme.

John - "J’aime ce qui est vrai, sans détour, ni artifice. Je ne recherche rien de particulier, mais tout à la fois, je suis fidèle et sincère. J’aime les gens droits, mais non sans défauts, sinon la vie ne serait pas ce quelle est. "

Who am I ???

How should-I present myself ? The best way, I think, it’s to let things flow by itself or themselves. So here is my try. Male obviously, 45 years of age, 5-11 and ½ and believe me, the half part is important to me lolll. 175-180 lbs and I am a red-head sort off loll. Taurus so it mean’s that in a few months I will be older and hopely more wiser loll.

My enterests lies in few simple things in life. I have 2 kids, a boy and a girl that I love a lot. They are my greatest joy. I am a single Dad but I do thank God or my Creator always for that gift. I value friendship a lot, have not too many friends but the ones I’ve got, I am sure that they will be there for whatever time is left for me to live in this life. I am one of those who know for sure the value of life. Even thow sometimes I find myself into a bitchy mood. Lived a hard life but a real one. Took me a long time to find out who I am realy and what I am made off. But for sure now I know who I am and now I know what I need, want and desire the most in life. I think that I hold strong moral values and try to live by them all the time.

I am a social worker, working mostly with kids, handicaped people and some of those most unfortunate but sick. Sickness been there, got the message and came back. Was handicaped for a lot of years but dont consider myself in that state anymore. I do give a lot to others, listen a lot, give advice a lot and sometimes argue a lot when I feel that I have to defend injustices and maltreatment. In those times I become the most fierce person you may encounter. Because I realy believe that someone has to take stand firmly an react.

I like doing some oil painting when I’ve got time, writing when I’ve got time,
Reading a lot of times but loll what I like the most is to read law-books. I do like to give myself a decor which no other will find anywhere else. So I like painting walls, do some indoor decorating, restor old furniture, it calms my nerves loll. I like to chat but for one purpose only. I am trying to fing the mate, the only one that will matter. I like seeing films, staying at home, cooking. Like flowers and working outside in season. I think that all of this gives you a pretty good idea of who I am.

The only things that I miss the most in my life, is the ones that I loved and went back home from where they came and where one day I will be reunited with them. What I miss also is the one, the mate, the one that will count a lot to me. Is it you ??? Only one way to know. Communicate with me.
I believe, believe and believe a lot in my Creator and the angels around me.